
OK. I get it. You come home from errands or work, and you are dead tired. You may have a bag of groceries in your arms and maybe a child in tow. Your dog wants a walk. You plop the mail down on the table or counter “just for now”. You’ll get to it later. Most of it is just junk anyways.
The mail stack grows, and you consider just tossing it sight unseen.
This is not a good idea.
What important items might be lurking in your mail:
· Tax forms needed for filing your taxes
Right now, tax documents are arriving through the mail. Most of them are marked on the outside of the envelope “Important tax information”. These need to be gathered and put in one spot for when you are ready to tackle that unpleasant task. It’s frustrating to finally make yourself sit down and work on taxes only to find you are missing an important 1099.
· A traffic fine that you got for running that red light
One of my clients got caught on camera running a red light in another state. She was mailed information on how to deal with the fine. She did not open that mail and ignored it. Later she wanted to go on a trip and get a rental car. At that point she discovered that her driver’s license was revoked. Whoops!
· Your new tax decal or car title
I recently had to get a car title for my husband’s car. I was able to do all the paperwork rather easily at the DMV but they told me to watch for the title that would be mailed in a few weeks.
Some people pay for their new car decals by mail and in that case the decal will be mailed to them after the paperwork is processed. It is important to open that mail and get that decal on your car if you don’t want to get pulled over.
· A change in your insurance policy, utility statements or credit card
If you have chosen to get paper statements, then any changes will be on that statement. My phone company reliably ups my fees about every six months and usually needs a phone call to pull them back in line.
· Jury summons
Our local paper, the Atlanta Journal Constitution, had an interesting column last February 2. The headline was “Ga. Judge asks jury duty no-shows: Why?”. The judge had deputies round up two dozen people to explain why they had failed to show up for jury duty. Last fall 200 people were sent summons for jury duty and only 84 appeared. Many said that they didn’t open or receive the mail. What they were finding was that so much junk mail comes now, and most people do their stuff electronically, so they don’t pay much attention to the mail. But until the legislature changes, the way people are summoned is by mail.
· A credit card offer with codes that someone else might grab and use
I hate these and I am not sure if someone else could actually use this information but when they come in the mail with my name and contact information and a special code or square, I feel I must shred them.
· An invitation
Wedding invitations, graduation invites, and some party invitations still come by mail. You may have had an email telling you to save the date, but this actual mailed invitation has more information and usually an RSVP request.
· A handwritten note or card from a friend or family member.
Who wants to miss that? When someone has taken time to write you a personal note and mail it, that’s special. And that birthday card might even have a gift card inside. (see picture of grandson with his Halloween card)
Conclusion:
Again, I get it that you are exhausted at the end of the day and the last thing you want to do is go through a stack of mail. So, put it in a basket or container and schedule a time at least once a week to go through it. Most of it will hit the recycle bin, a few items will go into the shred pile, but some of the pieces will require action and a few may bring a smile to your face.
Just open your mail! It’s not that hard.
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Jonda S. Beattie, Professional Organizer owner of Time Space Organization, and co-owner of Release, Repurpose, Reorganize. She is based in the Metro-Atlanta area. As presenter, award-winning author, as well as a retired special education teacher she uses her listening skills, problem solving skills, knowledge of different learning techniques, ADHD specialty, and paper management skills to help clients tackle the toughest organizational issues. Jonda does hands on organizing and virtual organizing. For more of Jonda’s tips connect with her on Facebook.
Shame on your phone company! (AT&T does that with my landline. I don't think I've ever gone more than two months in a row at the same rate, when it's supposed to be a fixed amount. I call. I try not to yell. Sigh. I can't imagine how much money people lose by not checking their mail.) I don't know about someone using the credit card codes, but anyone riffling through your mailbox can make use of those balance transfer checks that come from the credit card company. Getting them out of the mailbox and into your house right away is the safest move! These are all great examples. To be honest, I might be the only person I know who LOVES…
These are all great examples, and reminders to open that mail! I've noticed the younger generation doesn't even check their mailbox, let alone bring it in and not review the stack. My mother sent my daughter a check in a holiday card once as a gift, but my daughter wasn't checking her mail and it went missing. We don't know when it went missing. My daughter said, "she needs to text me when she sends me mail." A different generation!!!
Like Janet, my mail goes to a community mailbox room. I go there about once a week to retrieve my mail. As you say, most of it goes into the recycling bin once I get home. Sometimes there is a note or a wedding invitation, sometimes there is a magazine. I get all my bills electronically so I don't worry about that. I will, though, keep my eye out for a jury summons - just in case.
We don't get much "real" mail anymore, and everyone has to go pick up their mail at a community mailbox, so lots of people only go once in a while. This reminds me of a funny story.
A few years ago, I was at a baby shower, and a relative said she didn't receive an invitation, but heard about it through another family member. It was sent to her, but she hadn't picked up her mail in weeks. What made it funny is that SHE is a mail carrier!
I love all of your compelling reasons to open your mail. Aside from the fact that doing this regularly makes it more manageable, there can be negative consequences when important things are missed.
My Dad always loved getting and opening the mail. His love of doing that was passed on to me. So on days like today which is a national mail holiday, I miss running out to the mailbox. I know it's silly, but it's one of the small mini joys of my day. Even though most of the mail is junk mail, on occasion, something wonderful arrives like a personal note or invitation to an event.
In addition, I like the mini project of reviewing, routing, shredding, filing,…